Was listening to this hit by Lady Gaga recently & it dawned to me regarding the affairs of the heart - Fragile. Life is really like a stage. 戏如人生. Most of the time, the scriptwriters were inspired to write on real life accounts. Many people whom I see, they can excel in their careers but when it come to relationship problems, their IQ & EQ totally Zero. Oops! They dilly-dally & are indecisive, & choose to avoid, escape 逃避. :-S 不果断. I wonder why. I reckon its our upbringing, especially in Asia. We are not being nutured in the areas of expression especially in character building. We listened & talked negatively more than anything else. & how could our self-esteem be build up this way? Especially as compared to most of the Westerners - they are more expressive & say positive words. For me, if I were to have children, I would definitely wanna make sure the environment for them to grow up in is a surreal, positive one. One good for their inner growth -for their spirit, soul & body as well as growth for little creative minds. Freedom. Carefree. With Love.
Back to Lady Gaga's song - Bad Romance. I find the lyrics interesting - there's one part @the beginning "I want your ugly, I want your disease, I want your everything as long as its free...." Many people are caught in bad romance, either unknowingly or knowingly. Some people, though being entangled in a bad relationship, they chose to hang on. Its sad. I think most of these people don't think they deserve the best or they're just hanging on for fear of being single again. They rather hang on to their dear lives to the fruitless relationship than being left on the shelf, so as to speak. :O I've personally know someone like that. She has extreme low-esteem & always talk negatively. Bad Vibes in her. So perhaps because of that...bad romance came looking for her? Coz' what energy we send forth will attract that same energy.
Many a time, the friends & lovers we choose has a big deal to do with our inner selves. Our thoughts & most importantly, do we love ourselves? If we do not love ourselves enough, the relationships we engage in will reflect on that.
As such, not only our physical bodies need to be nourished with good & healthy food. Likewise, our inner-selves too, need to be nourished with the positive thoughts. Coz what's inside of us, will ultimately reflect out sooner or later.
Have Healthy & Wholesome Life, everyone! Feed your soul with the right soul food! ;)
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